In his blog he wrote this...
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This was suppose to be a happy post but..
Some people just likes to scold me, so Im saying 'I don't know' to everything she/he asks.
Yea, he/she said I was annoying, and probably yes.
You scold me for everything, yadadadada.
Your more like my mother.
You ask me to clean the plates when i finsh eating, Why must I?
Your not a role model.
Were you doing that when you're 12?
Great, and remember that time, you asked how long to heat up the pizza.
Do you know that you need to heat up both the pan and the pizza?
I asked Mum if it was the pan and the pizza or just the pan,
After finsh asking, she/he said "Haiss, take so long to answer a simple question".
HELLO?
Are you trying to ask for trouble?
Even though you're older than me, you've no rights to scold me for no reason.
I guess I'll just keep a distance from you unless I've something to ask you.
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I would start off by quoting your sentences..
"You scold me for everything, yadadadada."
In the very first place, when did I even scold you? Do you know the meaning of scolding? Just in case you don't know, scolding means: 'to tell off someone because you disapprove of their behaviour' . I'm VERY sure I did not tell you off, all I merely did was just ASK you a question in which you REFUSED to give me an answer.
& so you think giving an entertaining answer of 'I don't know' is the way to react? I'm sorry, but I define that as escaping from a problem instead of facing and resolving it.
I'm in no position in being your 'mother' and have NO INTEREST to be your mother. I don't think just by asking you certain reasonable questions would qualify me as 'your mother'. So you mean by being your 'sister' I can't "scold" you? I'm still older than you, I HAVE the rights to speak my mind when I see something I'm unhappy with. I RESOLVE PROBLEMS, and not let them go past me, unlike you.
Why can't I ask you to clean plates? You mean a 12year old cannot clean plates? So you have to be like what? 13year old? 17year old? Then you can clean plates isit? Wow, I was unaware to that theory. Yes, you may say that when I was 12, I did not clean plates? Have you ever wondered what the reason was? AROUND that point of time, we hired a maid. So, the maid does everything.
& since you're saying 'Your not a role model. Were you doing that when you're 12?' Nice sentence, I like that. When I was 12, I was not doing programming shits, and YOU shouldn't be doing it too. When I was 12, I ate meals TOGETHER with grandpa, and YOU should be dong it too. When I was 12, I didn't have my own mobile phone, and YOU shouldn't have one too. Why don't I see you doing what I was doing when I was 12?
If you want to compare it this way, I CAN compare it this way too. Is it fair? Rethink about it.
Regarding the pizza matter, like what you posted... "you asked how long to heat up the PIZZA". You already posted the freaking word, or I already said the freaking word 'PIZZA'. Obviously it meant the edible food - Pizza. I didn't say 'Pan' or 'Pan & Pizza'. So? Obviously it is just the food itself what? & you're upset just over this matter?
Next, I'm NOT asking for trouble. On the other hand, I would like to ask if YOU were the one asking for trouble. I asked you, when you were heating up the pizza 'I the whole pizza for yourself?' It was clearly OBVIOUS that it was all for you and you ALREADY had the mindset to eat it all up. So when I asked you that question, did you even reply me? You again, said "I don't know" or "Maybe". You can just answer 'Yes' or 'No' right? What is with those middle-type-answers?
Yes, I'm older than you. BUT I'm "scolding" you for a reason. If you think I had NO reasons to scold you, the whole chunk typed above are my reasons. & I'd like to clarify again, I'm not even SCOLDING you. I didn't even raise my voice.
You can choose to continue living in your world and think that I'm trying to find faults with you. Go ahead, but before you do that. Reflect and Think of why do I even bother talking to you, why would I want to find 'trouble' with you? Wake up and stop living in a state of bewilderment.
If you have something to say, come right into my face and confront it to me. Don't hide behind your desktop and blog it out loud. Yes, you can say that I'm doing the same thing by posting things on my facebook. But THINK, if I were to confront you or ask you face-to-face... will you even give me a reply? Will you even WANT to answer my questions? NO, obviously not. All the kinds of answer you will give me is just 'I don't know'.
If your answers is 'I don't know', I'd rather not waste my time and energy to talk to you.
Sherrill.
